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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 12:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

OKies,
just finished my birthday party and I'm quite drunk. Quick question;

girl I've been in love with for a year, can't get over, she left my birthday early to go spend it with her BALD BOYFRIEND twice her age, I'm cold and alone and it's 3 in the morning

I should get over her, right? What the fuck do I do. Someone give me some ideas, anything will help. I'm well past the emo 'cutting myself' point, I just need some kind of constructive idea for what the fuck to do next

I remind you I'm drunk.


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 13:20 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Confidence, baby. Confidence. Women like men who are proud but not arrogant. Humble, not self-deprecating. Not sure if you realize it, but you do tend to put yourself down.

You have a lot to offer - you're funny, you're talented, you have sexy hair. :-) Now - when the buzz has worn off - get to work on your self confidence. When you do, women will stick a little closer to you and stop going off with their 'bald boyfriends'.

Sorry that doesn't help with this particular woman, though. :-/



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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 13:58 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

go to bed dude and sleep it off.youve had an emotional day with your birthday and everything.
you will think more logically in the morning with a hangover..


isnt innuendo an italian suppository?

im gonna ride the wild wind!

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 14:24 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

There's just one thing you can do... Shave your head!

Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 14:29 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Go round to her house and put a brick through her window.

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 16:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Keep getting sloshed.


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 16:32 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

fatty wrote:

Go round to her house and put a brick through her window.

fatty.


Listen to fatty. He gives the best advice.

;-)


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 16:48 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

get down on your knees and tell her you love her


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 17:16 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Come to England and we shall get married and live in a castle and live happily ever after.

Failing that, Fatty's idea is worth a try.

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 17:52 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Try a different booze?

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 17:54 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

It's your party, you can cry if you want to.

Hey, nothing good ever happens at parties anyway. The good things happen when you least expect them to.

I think.

Not sure.

Yes, that settles it. You shall move to England and marry Freya.

Or fatty's idea.

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 18:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Zebonka12 wrote:

OKies,
just finished my birthday party and I'm quite drunk.


Did this party last four days? XD


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 19:06 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I don't wanna sound cheesy or anything... But if you're really good to her (from your other posts about yourself and girls, I got the impression you treat girls very well, and they end up going for "bad" boys) and she doesn't recognize it, then it's her loss, she doesn't really deserve you.

Enjoy life as a single man while you can, and when you finally see a real chance of getting yourself someone special, grab the chance.


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 19:10 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Donna13 wrote:

It's your party, you can cry if you want to.



you'll always find me in the kitchens at parties..


isnt innuendo an italian suppository?

im gonna ride the wild wind!

its_a_hard_life wrote:you nutcase you rule!

joxer replies: but in a nice way :-]

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 19:11 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color="lime">Raf840 wrote:

I don't wanna sound cheesy or anything... But if you're really good to her (from your other posts about yourself and girls, I got the impression you treat girls very well, and they end up going for "bad" boys) and she doesn't recognize it, then it's her loss, she doesn't really deserve you.

Enjoy life as a single man while you can, and when you finally see a real chance of getting yourself someone special, grab the chance.


fuck i dont wanna agree with you, but Raf is right....

Chicks love that bad boy syndrome..but those chicks dont really get far..as raf said, doesn't recognize it, then it's her loss.

Id say try to move on... as its hard to time, but time will soon be on your side... then who knows, this chick might fall pregnant and be a juno... then you will thank god it wasnt you who got with her.

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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 19:22 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Shave your head! DUH!

No no just kidding, don't.


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 19:23 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

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Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)

The truest thing here yet! You're not the one getting anything wrong, it's them.


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 20:12 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Girls, can't live with em, can't live without em....

Some girl chose my friend over me last night, and he's a sleazy bastard, nice guys finish last i tell ya.......become a prick and you will get where you want!


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 21:15 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Well, I don't like bad boys. Back in my dating days, if you were nasty to me or got a cocky attitude with me, you were completely embarrassed soon after.

Z, is this the same girl that is/was gay? I think I remember you liking a girl that you said was gay? I might be wrong. Anyway, the right person that is deservant of you will come when you least expect it and you are not looking. If this girl has her attention on another man, leave her be. Things might change and work out between you but I find that if you let things go on their own they usually work out for the best.

I do love the idea of you marrying Freya though. You two would be an EXCELLENT couple. My blessing has been given.

:)


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Posted: 09 Feb 08, 22:37 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm a little hungover and my stomach is making funny noises, but there's always time to answer QZ posts, I think.

magicalfreddiemercury wrote:

Confidence, baby. Confidence. Women like men who are proud but not arrogant. Humble, not self-deprecating. Not sure if you realize it, but you do tend to put yourself down.

You have a lot to offer - you're funny, you're talented, you have sexy hair. :-) Now - when the buzz has worn off - get to work on your self confidence. When you do, women will stick a little closer to you and stop going off with their 'bald boyfriends'.

Sorry that doesn't help with this particular woman, though. :-/


I do put myself down..... I'm only trying to be realistic, though! I know women aren't all as shallow as some of the ones I've met, but even the down-to-earth types have real life considerations to make.... I'm never going to be rolling around in cash, put it that way.

Nothing's going to help with this woman, of course.... I knew that a year ago. Tis just hard trying to move on. There isn't anyone I've met that can figure me out in a matter of seconds the way she does :(

JoxerTheBeachcomberPirate wrote:

go to bed dude and sleep it off.youve had an emotional day with your birthday and everything.
you will think more logically in the morning with a hangover..


Doing that now... ha-ha. My left thumb is twitching uncontrollably. I don't think I drank enough!
I couldn't sleep after the party, was too depressed, so I watched TJ Hooker until fatigue took me. How funny is that? TJ Hooker is terribly written, but I still say Shatner is the best cop on TV.

Woodie wrote:

There's just one thing you can do... Shave your head!

Kidding mate, get yourself another gal, bet they're many
out there loving your music and who'd wanna take you upstairs ;)


HAHA... oh if only. There's probably a few who like the covers I can play, but my music itself....
Nope :/ Not that I disagree with them there, but that's a different kettle of fish.

fatty wrote:

Go round to her house and put a brick through her window.

fatty.


I was going to try that on her boyfriend...

<font color=666600><b>Music Man wrote:

Keep getting sloshed.


People gave me wine for my birthday. I don't have a choice!

! Jake ! wrote:

get down on your knees and tell her you love her


Trivia : even on my knees, I'm taller than she is.
The time for a move like that would've been... oh... fuck, how long now.... 2006. Don't you know it ; back then we'd only just met and I was too unsure to DO anything. By the time my mind was made up on how I felt, she'd made up her mind that we're 'best friends forever' material .... *puke*.

<b><font color=007788> ?Freya? wrote:

Come to England and we shall get married and live in a castle and live happily ever after.



I don't want to give a wrong impression of myself, but that really is the best idea I've seen in here. To paraphrase Wayne's World, though : "I'm not worthy! I'm not worthy! I suck!"

yamaha wrote:

Try a different booze?


I was drinking Smirnoff all night.. it's those beer-sized bottles that taste a bit like lemonade.

Donna13 wrote:

It's your party, you can cry if you want to.

Hey, nothing good ever happens at parties anyway. The good things happen when you least expect them to.

I think.

Not sure.

Yes, that settles it. You shall move to England and marry Freya.

Or fatty's idea.


I'm thinking they're both pretty awesome ideas, actually!

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Zebonka12 wrote:

OKies,
just finished my birthd


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