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Posted: 09 Mar 10, 12:45 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.

She gave me her number and we swopped texts on Saturday. 

I phoned her on Sunday and it went straight to voicemail.  It might be worth adding that she had said that phone was out of credit.

She hasn't phoned back.

What do I do next?

Jeez - this doesn't get any easier does it?!!

Thanks.



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Posted: 09 Mar 10, 13:20 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

In my experience - and  I'm not in the first flush of youth -  if someone wants to contact you, they'll contact you.
Having said that, there's no harm in leaving another message. If there's still no reply -  another one's got away.
I've spent far too many hours in my time waiting for the phone to ring.
Good luck!

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Posted: 09 Mar 10, 13:49 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote



Voice of Reason 2010 wrote:

Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.

She gave me her number and we swopped texts on Saturday. 

I phoned her on Sunday and it went straight to voicemail.  It might be worth adding that had said that phone was out of credit.

She hasn't phoned back.

What do I do next?

Jeez - this doesn't get any easier does it?!!

Thanks.


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Posted: 09 Mar 10, 14:43 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Wait a week and call back one more time.  Don't leave another voice message.

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Posted: 09 Mar 10, 18:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote




 



 



 



 



 



 



 



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Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.

She gave me her number and we swopped texts on Saturday. 

I phoned her on Sunday and it went straight to voicemail.  It might be worth adding that had said that phone was out of credit.

She hasn't phoned back.

What do I do next?

Jeez - this doesn't get any easier does it?!!

Thanks.



 



 



 



 



 



 



 



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No.


Seriously though, just play the game.  I second Grateful Fan's suggestion.  Be patient and don't panic. 
If it doesn't pull through you really didn't lose anything anyway.







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Posted: 11 Mar 10, 09:01 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Thanks guys!

I've decided to forget about her and look forward to the weekend!

Cheers.




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Posted: 12 Mar 10, 06:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

And, needless to day, she texted last night...



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Posted: 12 Mar 10, 07:29 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Hope it was a good text!


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Posted: 13 Mar 10, 13:15 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote



don't date chicks with dicks



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Posted: 13 Mar 10, 19:46 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

If you're looking for a long lasting relation, be true to yourself.

If you want a one night stand only, buy her a few drinks, brag and lie as much as you can (and she still believes you) and present your self as the most fantastic guy in the world. Who cares what she thinks of you the day after.

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Posted: 14 Mar 10, 18:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote



Voice of Reason 2010 wrote:

Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.




Laugh? I nearly died... I wouldn't dream of seeing a girl who thought a night out was going to see a Bon Jovi tribute act! A quickie behind the bins is all she is worth.






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Posted: 14 Mar 10, 18:33 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote



mooghead wrote:



 



Voice of Reason 2010 wrote:



Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.





Laugh? I nearly died... I wouldn't dream of seeing a girl who thought a night out was going to see a Bon Jovi tribute act! A quickie behind the bins is all she is worth.





bet she thinks ass-sex is sophisticated








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Posted: 16 Mar 10, 12:48 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote



Mr. Britt wrote:







Voice of Reason 2010 wrote:



Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.

She gave me her number and we swopped texts on Saturday. 

I phoned her on Sunday and it went straight to voicemail.  It might be worth adding that had said that phone was out of credit.

She hasn't phoned back.

What do I do next?

Jeez - this doesn't get any easier does it?!!

Thanks.



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I could think of a couple of things your shrink might have to say about that...I'm wondering whether or not "compulsive sexual projection" would beat "misogyny" to the top of the list.



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Posted: 16 Mar 10, 13:21 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote





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Posted: 16 Mar 10, 13:22 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote




mooghead wrote:



 



Voice of Reason 2010 wrote:



Ok, I danced with a girl at the raucous end of a Bon Jovi tribute in our local last Friday.





Laugh? I nearly died... I wouldn't dream of seeing a girl who thought a night out was going to see a Bon Jovi tribute act! A quickie behind the bins is all she is worth.





And what does that say about my choice of a night out?!!

Have a good St. Patrick's Day everyone!



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