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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 15:11 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

plz, i need help, i got a serious problem and addiction to cutting, plz can someone tell me how i can stop cus its lie trying to quit smokeing, its hard and i need advise, please.

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 15:22 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

If I can be serious for a moment without getting immaturely told to "Fuck Off": Go to a counsellor, and also talk to your doctor about maybe switching your anti-depressant medication for another (may I suggest Celexa perhaps?). Certain anti-depressants can REALLY increase the risk of suicide more than others.

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 15:23 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

And secondly, will you PLEASE for the love of God get a blog that perhaps you could link to in your signature as well as your Facebook profile links??

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 15:31 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

ur right that i should switch anti depressants, i tryed to overdose for the first 4 or 5 mounths of takein them, but they probably wont but im gonna, & no i wont get a blog cus i made this to ask the people on here for advise and i thought this was the best way of doin it

p.s sorry if i make some spellin mistakes and sound a bit chavy, its just im typin with only one hand

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 16:20 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Jesus Christ. I know it's not my business to ask really, but just what is it that's so fucked up in your life that you intentionally try to overdose on your medication within the first few months. It's like someone REALLY abused the hell out of you either mentally, psychologically or both to even cause you to go on meds and treat yourself like this!

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 16:44 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

dont go judging some ones situation if u have never met them and know nothing about them, for fuck sake what the hell do u know about me that makes u say i had no right to do that, u know nothin, try thinking before u go sayin all this shit why dont u!

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 16:45 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

i started this forum to ask for HELP! NOT TO BE PUT DOWN EVEN MORE DAMN IT!

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 16:52 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Once again, you are getting TOO defensive right off the bat and coming to misassumptions. I was NOT trying to judge you there nor put you down, what I was trying to say was that I wanted to know basically WHY you got put on the meds in the first place and also what's behind the reason you're basically torturing yourself for.

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 17:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

one way 2 stop cuttin is to think of all the people who care about u. thats what i do and it usully works. u can also talk 2 me and we can work it out that way. u can tell me with great detail why u feel like cuttin on that day if u like.

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 17:07 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

ok, thanks chum :D <3 xxxxx <3  xxxxxx <3 xxxxxx <3 
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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 17:09 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

ur welcome chum. i love ya.

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 17:11 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

YoungQueenFan17 wrote: ur welcome chum. i love ya.

i love ya to ;)

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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 18:32 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

YoungQueenFan17 wrote: one way 2 stop cuttin is to think of all the people who care about u. thats what i do and it usully works. u can also talk 2 me and we can work it out that way. u can tell me with great detail why u feel like cuttin on that day if u like.

No. If the girl has a serious psychological issue she needs to seek professional help, not turn to feel-good bullshit about all the people in the world who care for her. I'm sure many people have committed suicide despite the fact that they were aware of how "loved" they were.


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Posted: 06 Oct 10, 19:14 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

STOP RIGHT NOW AND NEVER DO IT AGAIN!   talk to someone if you feel that bad, there is always someone who will listen and they won't judge you either. people are going to help you .think positive. Be creative express yourself through art, music, whatever. it helps .


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Posted: 07 Oct 10, 04:23 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Hi there having sufferd this condition myself i would recomend that you see your GP weekly, see a good Psyciatrist monthly.Get your wounds seen by the Doctor or Nurse and dressed reguarly.I would also recomend the following medication,Quetipiapine 600mg and Tranzodone 4OOmg.I wish you well and hope that you are soon feeling better and can start enjoying life again.

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Posted: 07 Oct 10, 08:06 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Find a better psychiatrist for f*ck's sake and do it NOW !!!

If this is not some sick joke you should be hospitalized immediately for your own safety

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Posted: 07 Oct 10, 08:34 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Obvious troll is obvious.


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Posted: 07 Oct 10, 09:31 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Sergei. wrote: YoungQueenFan17 wrote: one way 2 stop cuttin is to think of all the people who care about u. thats what i do and it usully works. u can also talk 2 me and we can work it out that way. u can tell me with great detail why u feel like cuttin on that day if u like.

No. If the girl has a serious psychological issue she needs to seek professional help, not turn to feel-good bullshit about all the people in the world who care for her. I'm sure many people have committed suicide despite the fact that they were aware of how "loved" they were.

shes my best friend and i tell her everythig tho,

and thanks to everyone who gave positive suggestions to help, <3 :)

it means alot, thanks :)

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Posted: 08 Oct 10, 04:04 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

This seems to be a common problem:

http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/health/view/1085884/1/.html

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Posted: 09 Oct 10, 20:39 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

The sentiments of the vast majority of the guys who have replied to you are correct, you need to get to your GP and let them sort out some counselling for you.  I know it's not easy for you, I really do, and I know you may feel that you can't confide with someone in a more professional capacity face to face, but they are there to get you through this.  We may feel like buddies to you (and we are) but we're not physically there, we can't see you, we can't make you stop.  Only you can do that, and you need to seek help through the correct channels. And apart from the mental issues, your wounds need looking at.   Thinking about how loved you are and what this could do to your loved ones is not the way forward, either.  This may make you feel even more anxious.  Instead, you should be thinking about what it's doing to you.  Do you want to be scarred so badly for the rest of your life?  Do you enjoy the pain?  Whatever pain is making you do this is not worth you exerting even more affliction.  You obviously see Queen as a positive in your life.  Whenever you feel that you need to do this, listen to your favourite tracks instead.  Better still, listen to them on the go - get yourself out for a while, hit the shops, go for a walk, sit in the park, whatever - but keep listening.  But also, please, get your doctor's help.  You are not alone.


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