....are in the heat of a passionate moment when the guy says to the gal "you know, I love kissing you, but I wish you'd stop passing me the gum you're chewing". The girl replied "that's not chewing gum, I've got bronchitis".
Cue the tumbleweed....
It ain't about how hard you can hit, it's about how hard you can get hit: how much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!