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Posted: 19 Jul 05, 23:01 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

OK, everybody knows that there are straight people, gay/lesbian people, and bisexuals. Here's what I want to discuss. Do you think that there is such a thing as nonsexual? As in not being physically attracted to anybody no matter the sex.

I think there is. Here is my reasoning. Most people are attracted to one or the other or both, but some people just can't get past friendship with anyone and they prefer to be by themselves than to have some one sexually.

I ask this because I am thinking that I am one of them. And that the reason why I don't have a boyfriend or anyone in general is because I'm not attracted to anyone. The same thing with girls. I'm not attracted to them. It might be a good thing because I know I don't necessarily want to get married. It will bug me if I don't have kids though.

What do you guys think? Is there such a thing as nonsexual?

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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 03:12 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

If there is such a thing as a 'non-sexual' (and I do not doubt it) then I think I must be the exact opposite! heh...

But, if thats the way you are, nothing wrong with that......(sounds like that Seinfeld bit...'not thats there anything wrong with that!')


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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 03:26 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Isn't the term "asexual", or am I wrong there?

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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 03:34 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Inu-Liger<h6>-a.k.a. Richard Guilbault- wrote:

Isn't the term "asexual", or am I wrong there?


I believe that would be correct, yes...


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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 04:54 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I once had a friend who claimed to be asexual... she was so damn proud of it too. She eventually broke away from that...rather recently too.
I used to be that way, and now I fear I am quite the opposite.
I suppose it is possible, but i feel it is more of a case of understanding yourself and meeting the right people.


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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 05:17 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Well... Everybody has his ups and downs... I had a period too that it was hard for me to love someone. Or to feel attractive to someone.

Maybe you have a period like that now. Or maybe it's good to experiment a bit. Just try to let someone into your life. Maybe you gonna like it.



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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 09:28 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

As long as you don't feel good about yourself and you don't respect your own person, you won't be able to find somebody to respect and like you...


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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 09:39 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

On the other hand... sex is listed in the hierarchy of human needs.. along with sleep, water, and food.

I think someone could be having a down time in their life, where they may prefer masturbation to sex with another.

But for someone to not have a sex life, nor masturbation.. or the desire for either, I have never heard of that.

I have a great sex life, plus a great masturbation life, I wouldn't give up either, and feel that I need both.

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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 10:27 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Yea, I know a guy who isnt attracted to either sex.


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Posted: 20 Jul 05, 10:44 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Interesting rmtfiction...

I have heard of these people "asexuals" here is some interesting information from Sigmund Freud on various information regarding human sexuality and the personality:

http://www.ship.edu/~cgboeree/freud.html

It may be interesting to look into books on fear of intimacy as opposed to "asexuality"

Amazon.com may have a few titles.

Good Luck on your search!


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Posted: 22 Jul 05, 11:34 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Well it's not just the sex. I'm just not attracted to anyone in general. I have feelings of affection at all towards anyone.

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Posted: 22 Jul 05, 11:45 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Inu-Liger<h6>-a.k.a. Richard Guilbault- wrote:

Isn't the term "asexual", or am I wrong there?

Precisely

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Posted: 22 Jul 05, 12:27 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

well, im glad u asked for help and dont feel uncomfortable admitting it...that's the first step, i think. i dont know much about this, but my guess is is that it could just be a stage that youll soon get over...but if it continues for a long time, and it is really bothering you to the point where you're constantly depressed over it and you dont feel that you can possibly help yourself, seek professional help....i know, personally i wouldnt want to take an of my deep problems to other people, but it's worth a try...
hope this helps, and good luck, hon! ^.^



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