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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 01:36 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Do you practice abstinence, and if so, for what reason...

I havent had sex in almost 2 years, and it feels a little weird at times, but I'm fuctioning quite well...surprising at the least. The reason why I'm not doing it, is because for one, I just dont need it like I thought I did, and two, I dont want to end up like some my friends and family (I had a cousin who died from AIDS back in 98) and a couple of friends who dealt with STD's, minor, but still STD's, pregnancy, etc...another factor is that I moved back home with my family, so its easier to hold out on it, plus I have "solo options" if you know what I mean!!! LOL

What about you?


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 02:38 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

No, I'm more like "Just do IT" But all my respect to those who decide to act differently.

Then again I haven't gotten "any" in a month now. That sure feels like a very long time.

And I tend to feel some form of a moral hangover if I indulge in sexual activities with someone who I'm not really seriously considering as a "future option" Oh boy, I surely take life too seriously.








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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 03:04 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Oh okay...

With me, its the pregnancy factor also...I dont want kids until I'm actually ready for kids!!!...and I would never get an abortion, thats not even an option, and then birth control, the shot, blows you up...so I just dont want to deal with all that, and I dont have a boyfriend right now either...

I think most of me not having anyone special in my life right now, is having to do more with myself if anything...I'm very dissatisfield with myself (did I spell that right?) and I just dont have time for the hang-ups, the drama, etc...and even if I did have the time, I just dont feel like dealing with it.

People are so conditional!


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 10:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I consider any sexual activity outside of marriage to be gravely wrong, and I am not married, so I have never had sex. I will probably never be married either, so I don't waste much time thinking about it.

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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 10:35 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Farlander wrote:

I consider any sexual activity outside of marriage to be gravely wrong, and I am not married, so I have never had sex. I will probably never be married either, so I don't waste much time thinking about it.


How about sexual activity with my hand, some vaseline, and Playboy's centerfold?


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 10:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

my ex gf used to think that magazines like zoo, fhm, nuts were classed as pornographic, untill she fount my real stash, good old playboy.

remember always use a condom, and if your blessed in that department or just big headed, then theres bin liners in the kitchen.

also liked the 1st post about going solo, cracked me up


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 13:38 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=FF0099>Linda Of The Valley wrote:

HOW do you people live? lol :P


-1 years old? Man, children are doing it younger and younger these days.


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 14:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Alex Solan wrote:



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you practice letter abstinence? omg! that's sooooo hard!


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 14:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Sex is good, as long as there's love in the air. What's the difference between a good and steady relationship and a marriage?


I got to try al little more,

because I'm an asshole but I'm learning.



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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 14:04 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

The Mir@cle wrote:

Sex is good, as long as there's love in the air. What's the difference between a good and steady relationship and a marriage?


the in-out thing I'd say...


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 14:33 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Mr. Tampon Tea<br><font size=1>Panties inspector. wrote:

<font color=purple>Miss James wrote:

I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.


I want to marry you young lady. You'd be a great coffee table.

Cheers.

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I don't like coffee. It tastes bad. I prefer tea...


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 14:44 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Abstinence of sex, or sex AND masturbation, or only masturbation?


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 15:24 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=purple>Miss James wrote:

I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.



You've found a way to stay 21 until you get married?


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 17:32 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=purple>Miss James wrote:

I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.



I don't think I could go 21 days without sex.


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 17:40 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

-Luke_Taylor- wrote:

my ex gf used to think that magazines like zoo, fhm, nuts were classed as pornographic, untill she fount my real stash, good old playboy.


I hear you dude!

My girlfriend got really pissed off at me when she found pictures of Katherine Heigl on my computer. Those were not even porn (just FHM, Maxim stuff), but she didn't speak to me until the next day.

The funny thing is that she also has pictures of River Phoenix on my computer. I always joke with her about it. I don't mind her downloading pictures of male celebrities she likes. The good thing is that my girlfriend likes guys who are already dead. (River Phoenix, Brandon Lee, James Dean). So no worries for me for her hooking up with one of them.


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 21:22 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=crimson>Tickqueener wrote:

A true man respects women and does not degrade them treating them like a piece of meat.


I certainly agree.

...but what if that woman is Paris Hilton? I certainly would be a gentleman and turn down sex, or I could tell the dirty slut to fuck off before I get a rash from her.


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 22:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Mr. Tampon Tea<br><font size=1>Panties inspector. wrote:

<font color=crimson>Tickqueener wrote:

Mr. Tampon Tea<br><font size=1>Panties inspector. wrote:

<font color=purple>Miss James wrote:

I'm a 21 year old virgin and am staying that way until I get married.


I want to marry you young lady. You'd be a great coffee table.

Cheers.

Mr. Tampon Tea.


I am guessing that this is a 46 year old, bald, out of work person that still lives with his mother whose only goal in life is to wait on the next edition of Playboy in his mail box so he can enjoy 30 seconds of happiness and depart from what can be called the shithole that is his life. The main reason that I can assume this is that any self respecting man would not say such crude tasteless comments. A true man respects women and does not degrade them treating them like a piece of meat. So f*ck you very much. Have a nice day, I think your mommy is calling. Better hide the Playboy.


Oh, the Pillsbury Dough Boy! Could you please sign me a napkin?

Thanks so much, I really enjoy all your bread varieties.

Cheers.

Mr. Tampon Tea.


I think Amanda (as well as all the girls on this board) deserve a lot more respect than what you're giving her.

Whether she decides to remain a virgin or not until marriage, it's a position that we all should respect and appreciate. I'm not saying that all girls SHOULD remain virgins until marriage, but it's admirable that someone has the intention of saving himself/herself for that special someone.


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 22:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Mr.Jingles wrote:

The good thing is that my girlfriend likes guys who are already dead.



Is your girlfriend a conservative who posts on Queenzone? LOL


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 22:27 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Rip Van Winkle wrote:

Mr.Jingles wrote:

The good thing is that my girlfriend likes guys who are already dead.



Is your girlfriend a conservative who posts on Queenzone? LOL


Yes she does. Try guessing her Queenzone name.

I am also a conservative who disguises himself on Queenzone as an ultra left-wing liberal pussy. I like to hang around here as long as I assume that all of you are white.


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Posted: 23 Feb 06, 22:35 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

She is a conservative? I refuse to believe she is FGT. My feeble mind just could not take that.

I am a horrible guesser ... so I guess it will need to remain a mystery.


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