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Posted: 09 May 06, 19:13 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Ok, i dont want to offend anynoe here who loves Proms and formal dances and what not, but im sooo pissed off right now, and i dont know if i did the wrong thing or what...

but here goes...

Proms in a week, and i decided months ago that i was not going to go because i dont have fun at those things especially when i go with my friends and they all have dates and i dont... and they play music that i dont care for either... but i do enjoy being with my friends and getting dressed up...
But Prom is alot of time, money and energy, why waste the time in going....

But a few of my friends were gonna go and one of my others friends lets call her 'L' was kinda boycotting prom with me, and we were gonna hang out while the others were at the dance and then we were all gonna get together afterwords...

Then all of a sudden, the tune changes last thursday (proms the 19th btw) and L gets asked to the prom by one of her aquaintences going stag... so im alone basically, but then it gets worse because i could deal with that because one other girl i know wasnt gonna go either so we were j/ gonna go see a movie...

Then 2 of my other friends (N and A) were suppose to go stag together and one ('N') wanted to use her exboyfriend as someone to go to the Grand March with and thats it, unless she could go w/ someone else, so she told her ex that she was going stag with "A" and he said it was fine because he didnt want to screw over "A" and have her going alone...

But then L told another boy (who is going with the kid who asked her in their limo with some of his other friends) to ask N to the prom because he was the only one in the limo w/o a date...

Now heres where the problems lie:

L - leaves me in the dust all of a sudden for a date, and then lies saying that she didnt

N- screws over "A" and her exboyfriend, but is going with a kid who she never talks to, even said would be akward to go with, doesnt even really like, isnt friends with, but she does get her limo and date thats not her exboyfriend... and doesnt care how 3 other friends feel... because one other one of our friends was suppose to go with them



A- left out to dry, after spending money on a dress and was excited about going and having a good time with friends...

and its just snowballed... all because of a freakin dumbass overrated dance... where you eat some prime rib and listen to crap music... while all dressed up...

and 'N' called me last night telling me that she felt bad and everything and asked me to talk to her exboyfriend for her and stuff because he wouldnt talk to her...

Well i was damn foolish to do that, because i thought everything was ok, and he appreciated me talkin to him (as well as she), but then i told her this morning that its not right to leave people to hang out to dry like that, and she walked away mad at me and didnt talk to me for the rest of the day..

And now everyones feelings are hurt, and i dont know if any of these relationships will be repaired because of all the lies and things that have been passed around...

but did i do the right thing???


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Posted: 09 May 06, 20:51 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

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Posted: 09 May 06, 20:55 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I know this might sound strange, it's kind of hard to understand it all with the "L" "A" "N" I understand bascially that one lied, the other went out with another guy?


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Posted: 09 May 06, 21:49 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I got sick at my prom night and had to take a breathalyzer


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Posted: 09 May 06, 22:07 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Proms are boring, just like weddings.


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Posted: 09 May 06, 22:10 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Mr.Jingles wrote:

Proms are boring, just like weddings.


...and the music blows...


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Posted: 09 May 06, 22:26 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Queen Of Wrestling<h6>Jamie's Louvre wrote:

Mr.Jingles wrote:

Proms are boring, just like weddings.


...and the music blows...


Cheesy 80s pop ballads.


[QUOTE][QUOTENAME]Brandon wrote: [/QUOTENAME]... and now the "best you can offer is Mr. Jingles? HA! He's... just pathetic.[/QUOTE]
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Posted: 09 May 06, 22:34 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Mr.Jingles wrote:

Queen Of Wrestling<h6>Jamie's Louvre wrote:

Mr.Jingles wrote:

Proms are boring, just like weddings.


...and the music blows...


Cheesy 80s pop ballads.


More like Kanye West and 50 Cent.

Too bad the school fieldhouse isnt big enough for their egos.


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Posted: 10 May 06, 05:13 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

for our year 10 formal my friend ditched her boyfriend to go with me. i have never let him live that down!!! it was hilarious!!!

go! it'll be fun!! dressing up is always fun!!! and then there's the afterparty. that's when the real party starts

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Posted: 10 May 06, 05:36 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

High School is such a petty place.


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Posted: 10 May 06, 11:42 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Sorry but that is really confusing to understand with all the letters for peoples names. Why didnt you just use names? I sort of understand what you mean though...i think... lol


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Posted: 10 May 06, 12:19 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Queen Of Wrestling<h6>Jamie's Louvre wrote:

Mr.Jingles wrote:

Proms are boring, just like weddings.


...and the music blows...


yeah and the punch tastes like someone shoved half a bottle of vodka and 2 pints of diesel in it,

also the cheese sticks are shit!!!


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Posted: 10 May 06, 12:45 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Alright, about time something like this came up.

It just so happens that I went to a prom last Friday night (May 5). It was my girlfriend's prom, and she goes to a different high school than me.

Let me just say...I used to think proms were stupid, but it was just a matter of "don't knock it 'til you try it". I enjoyed it, and my girl did too. It was by far the single greatest moment of my life.

Okay, moving on to your dilemma:

It's common for this stupid crap to happen. I think it's because your friends are total drama queeens: I'm serious. These types of girls take it all too far and become so absorbed in it and stuff, and they act like their world is gonna end all because they didn't get to go with a guy to prom. They should take it easy, because I see no reason to go nuts over something as small as a prom. It's really no big deal. Even for me!

So, I think you did the right thing. Don't regret anything, and if your friends hate you for it, then...well...
they're not good friends, then, are they?


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Posted: 10 May 06, 13:05 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

In the grand scheme of things, this is no more important than the next whizzzzz I take.


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Posted: 12 May 06, 19:55 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

me_and_my_innuendo wrote:

Alright, about time something like this came up.

It just so happens that I went to a prom last Friday night (May 5). It was my girlfriend's prom, and she goes to a different high school than me.

Let me just say...I used to think proms were stupid, but it was just a matter of "don't knock it 'til you try it". I enjoyed it, and my girl did too. It was by far the single greatest moment of my life.

Okay, moving on to your dilemma:

It's common for this stupid crap to happen. I think it's because your friends are total drama queeens: I'm serious. These types of girls take it all too far and become so absorbed in it and stuff, and they act like their world is gonna end all because they didn't get to go with a guy to prom. They should take it easy, because I see no reason to go nuts over something as small as a prom. It's really no big deal. Even for me!

So, I think you did the right thing. Don't regret anything, and if your friends hate you for it, then...well...
they're not good friends, then, are they?


Well im not going because i always wind up upset at the end of these things...
And i realize this is confusing, im sorry...

But basically one friend lied, and totally disrespected me when i tried to help (which she asked me for anyways!) and i refuse to let people walk all over me anymore because ive had it happen too many times in my life and i refuse to be someones doormat...

And now shes playing the exclusion games, o u people come sleepover, blah blah blah...
petty highschool bullshit... And she wont talk to me because according to her, she did nothing to me...





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Posted: 12 May 06, 19:59 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

me_and_my_innuendo wrote:

Alright, about time something like this came up.

It just so happens that I went to a prom last Friday night (May 5). It was my girlfriend's prom, and she goes to a different high school than me.

Let me just say...I used to think proms were stupid, but it was just a matter of "don't knock it 'til you try it". I enjoyed it, and my girl did too. It was by far the single greatest moment of my life.


Okay, moving on to your dilemma:

It's common for this stupid crap to happen. I think it's because your friends are total drama queeens: I'm serious. These types of girls take it all too far and become so absorbed in it and stuff, and they act like their world is gonna end all because they didn't get to go with a guy to prom. They should take it easy, because I see no reason to go nuts over something as small as a prom. It's really no big deal. Even for me!

So, I think you did the right thing. Don't regret anything, and if your friends hate you for it, then...well...
they're not good friends, then, are they?


Well im not going because i always wind up upset at the end of these things...
And i realize this is confusing, im sorry...

But basically one friend lied, and totally disrespected me when i tried to help (which she asked me for anyways!) and i refuse to let people walk all over me anymore because ive had it happen too many times in my life and i refuse to be someones doormat...

And now shes playing the exclusion games, o u people come sleepover, blah blah blah...
petty highschool bullshit... And she wont talk to me because according to her, she did nothing to me... and i tried telling her how she disrespected me and she didnt wanna hear it...

And yea, they are drama queens, but shes spoiled and is used to getting what she wants... but she came crying to me (literally) because she felt like shit, and me being the ever dependable one i wanted to help because i think its stupid for all of this to be going on over an overrated dance... and im a fool for helping out because now we dont talk anymore...
And this is not the first time shes treated me like crap in the last few months...

so am i wrong here???

Thanks for the input btw...




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Posted: 12 May 06, 20:43 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Today is the prom for my high school.
Since I'm a senior, its expected that I go.
I've been planning for months already that I'm
not going.
And at the last minute, I realize that my friend
is going.
She doesn't like her date, so she said I should go.
I said if I get everything ready in time.
Well, I didn't.
So I'm not going.
But I'm going to go hang out with friends tonight.
I'm not going to let not going to prom runine my night!


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Posted: 12 May 06, 22:48 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Pissing on decorations...drinking punch that is most likely spiked...lighing off firecrackers in the gym...


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Posted: 14 May 06, 21:31 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Ravenetta <h6> the QZ hippy</h6> wrote:

i decided last minute i would go last year, hence the pic in my profile.

my freiend asked me today i could go with him cuz he didnt want to miss out, but he didnt realize it costed money, it got confuseing and now hes pissed, hey he snoozed he lost.
its actually boring unless you get you and your firensd to scream bohemian rhapsody, get everyone in a circle to sway and dance to that song then your night is complete :-D


Haha!
Well the problem is, none but one of my friends is a Queen fan and actually listens to classic rock like me... (well the one of my friends that still goes to the same school as i do)
And my schools so small, if i played BO Rhap, theyd ruin it for me by being assholes and screaming and make the DJ turn it off...

But im not going so i can do it at home for less cost to me and have just as much fun!!!

:-P

But i am going to do something with a few other people who aren't going and we're just gonna have a kick ass time...

We dont need to shell out a crazy amount of money to do it either...
i mean really u pay a crap load of money to eat like what bad prime rib or w/e and then u dance to crappy music...

Oh well, im gonna go and hang out with some cool people (to me) anyways so i dont care...