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Posted: 12 May 06, 13:54 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

When you guys are down in the dumps, how do you rebuild your self esteem? My self esteem and confidence in myself are completley non existent.

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Posted: 12 May 06, 14:05 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Nathan wrote:

how do you rebuild your self esteem?


Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot....

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Posted: 12 May 06, 14:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=red>EmpressOfTheUniverse wrote:

^same here! well according to my year head....but what does she know!


Indeed. Thing is though, I KNOW for a fact that I'm not cool. I need some advice as to how I can rise above that.

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Posted: 12 May 06, 15:05 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

When you do something you're particularly proud of, you should either post a picture of it or make a note about it in a book set aside just for this. When you're down on yourself, you can take a look through this book and see all of your accomplishments in one place. That should give your self-esteem a little boost.


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Posted: 12 May 06, 15:44 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Watching Freddie/Queen dvd's always helps :)


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Posted: 12 May 06, 15:57 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color="#FF00CC">its_a_hard_life wrote:

Nathan wrote:

how do you rebuild your self esteem?


Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot....


Same for me too. It's just something i crave to relax and feel better...and it hasn't let me down yet!


"It’s not often we play in daylight, and I fucking well wish we did before, I can see you all now. And there are some beauties here tonight, I can tell you!" ;)
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Posted: 12 May 06, 18:06 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Hmmm, OK, thanks.

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Posted: 12 May 06, 18:20 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

*hugs you back*

I try my best to like myself.

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Posted: 12 May 06, 19:08 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Start doing new things. Learn something you've always wanted to know; it'll give you a sense of accomplishment. And improve the skills you already have. :-)


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Posted: 12 May 06, 20:45 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I know what you are going through.
I've always had low self esteem and a very low
self image.
What helped me the most was my "true" friends.
I had a best friend that would always "help" me.
She would hide my secretes from family, and cover
my problems.

Well, she moved away and changed.
I made new friends.
Now I don't have to have any secretes to hide.
and when I have problems, they help me solve it
instead of cover it.

They have always been there for me and never let
me look at the negative side of things.

I say good friends are a great boost for a
healthy self esteem.


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Posted: 12 May 06, 23:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Run a few miles or go to the weight room


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Posted: 12 May 06, 23:22 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

WANK TILL DEATH


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Posted: 13 May 06, 01:52 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=red>Flash! wrote:

<font color="#FF00CC">its_a_hard_life wrote:

Nathan wrote:

how do you rebuild your self esteem?


Listen to Queen/Freddie/Brian/Roger, helps alot....


Same for me too. It's just something i crave to relax and feel better...and it hasn't let me down yet!





This is what I do too. The sound of their voices always makes me feel better;)


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Posted: 13 May 06, 02:13 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

perfect way to cure the blues: (Queen styled)
1. Listen to "It's a Beautiful Day"
2. Follow up by listening to "Don't Stop Me Now"
3. Completely rock out to "Killer Queen"

You'll be bursting w/ happiness in no time! :D:D:D


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Posted: 13 May 06, 03:21 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW

I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE

http://www.queenzone.com/queen/fan_pics/t_111780245980.jpg

AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT


SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN

:)


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Posted: 13 May 06, 04:26 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

That was tasteless.

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Posted: 13 May 06, 08:16 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

MatiasMay wrote:

EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW

I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE

http://www.queenzone.com/queen/fan_pics/t_111780245980.jpg

AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT


SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN

:)


Hey! Leave Ben alone. He rocks!


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Posted: 13 May 06, 12:20 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=red>Flash! wrote:

MatiasMay wrote:

EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW

I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE

http://www.queenzone.com/queen/fan_pics/t_111780245980.jpg

AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT


SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN

:)


Hey! Leave Ben alone. He rocks!

Yeah, that was mean. :-( He's cool!


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Posted: 13 May 06, 16:48 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I don't think it's possible to cure a low self esteem, or raise it up without lying to yourself. So I can't help out there, but if you're feeling upset I suggest writing it out of your system. It usually helps me a bit. Whether it's something you morph into fiction or if it's just like keeping a journal I think it might help.


"The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keep out the joy."

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Posted: 13 May 06, 19:30 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

ChinesedogTorture wrote:

<font color=red>Flash! wrote:

MatiasMay wrote:

EVERYTIME I FEEL LOW

I LOOK AT THIS PICTURE

http://www.queenzone.com/queen/fan_pics/t_111780245980.jpg

AND I REMEMBER THAT I COULD NEVER BE THAT IDIOT


SO I'M HAPPY AGAIN

:)


Hey! Leave Ben alone. He rocks!

Yeah, that was mean. :-( He's cool!


Dont worry, he's just mad because the big scary american was picking on Alex


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Freedom from choice is what you want



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