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Posted: 17 May 06, 17:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I just found out my Dads brother which is my uncle has died today of Cancer, I don't know which kind but my mum got the phone call from my other uncle who was visting him today. My dad is in tears and I am trying so hard not to myself. I don't want to show him that I'm upset. I'm finding it hard to catch my breath though....It has come as such a shock to me and now I don't feel well. He was such a nice guy.... R.I.P :(

Sorry I just had to tell someone, anyone...




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Posted: 17 May 06, 17:55 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

im sorry ill tlak to you on MSN now


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Posted: 17 May 06, 17:58 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

*hugs* You know where I am too.

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Posted: 17 May 06, 17:59 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm so sorry. <hugs> But please know it's not only okay to cry, it may be good for your dad to see you doing it - to know you cared that much for his brother. Besides, it's better to get it out than try to hold it all in.


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Posted: 17 May 06, 17:59 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

That's absolutely terrible... I'm deeply sorry for your loss. :'(
*hugs*
Death is so difficult to deal with. You, your dad, and your whole family are very brave.


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Posted: 17 May 06, 18:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I just added you to my msn, so we can talk if I can be of any help.


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Posted: 17 May 06, 18:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Aw, Jess, I'm so sorry... :'( My Mom died from cancer when I was little, so I know what it's like. Also, my Dad passed away just recently, so what you're feeling now is what I'm still sorta feeling. You don't have to be strong and try not to cry. It really helps to let it out. Even if you don't want to cry in front of other people, go somewhere else and just let it all out. I can tell you from personal experience that by keeping it all inside is not a good thing. What I also found out that works (for me, anyway) is writing a letter to someone that you trust and look up to. For me, that is, of course, Brian :P . I just sit down and tell him everything and that way it's like talking about it but not really. Anyway, I don't know if that was any help or not. I know what you're going through... hang in there okay? And listen to lots of Queen! Keep the boys on 24/7!

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Posted: 17 May 06, 18:16 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Mayniac316, my deepest condolences. :( :(
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Posted: 17 May 06, 18:49 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm very sorry for your loss.


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Posted: 17 May 06, 21:12 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Aww, Jessi. Come talk to me.


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Posted: 17 May 06, 21:50 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I am truly sooo sorry for your loss...
This is an all to familiar scene for me...(ive lost many people in my life to cancer, heart disease, ALS and even one voluntary death)
And its not easy...
And it wont ever get easier...
*sooooo many hugs*
and my heart truly goes out to you, ill keep you and your family in my thoughts... and this can only make you a stonger person...
Please dont keep it inside, even if you must cry yourself to sleep, because when my grandmother passed away recently i refused to cry in front of my mother because i wanted to be strong for her and i didnt want to break down...
But i had a few other things going on as well and it almost drove me insane trying to be so strong.
And its always helpful to find someone to talk to, and maybe write or just listen to some music to help show you some happy things...

But dont be afraid to cry...

Im soo sorry for your loss dear. If you need to talk, email me...

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Posted: 17 May 06, 22:14 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm sorry, Jess and Marissa. Your family members must be watching over you along with the rest of the angels (including Freddie, of course). I hope I'm not making your day worse by saying that.

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Posted: 18 May 06, 06:32 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm very sorry for your loss.

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Posted: 18 May 06, 10:37 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm so sorry to hear abouth this, both of you. death is always so difficult, even though it's one of the most natural things that happen. I know it doesn't help saying that :( I hope you'll feel better soon.


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Posted: 18 May 06, 12:19 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm so sorry, Jess.

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Posted: 18 May 06, 12:26 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Very sorry to hear *hugs* :'(


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Posted: 18 May 06, 14:59 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote


Sorry to hear that, Jess. Deepest sympathy.


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Posted: 18 May 06, 15:12 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

His Cancer was 'down below'....

Thank you everybody so much for your kind words. I have got on with life, went to school but the hardest moment was when I told my friends and I couldn't keep it in anymore so I cried with them. My dad has went to work, I think it's okay to just carry on with the normal day to day things in life. I am trying to cope with it all and listening to Queen has helped abit to calm me down.

I know this sounds mad but I had "A Winters Tale" on for 40 times on repeat, I adore that song so much and it really calmed me down. Thanks everyone again. *big hugs*

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Posted: 18 May 06, 15:21 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Oh my! I'm so sorry, darling. Hope everything gets better for you and your family. * gives non-evil teddy bear*


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Posted: 18 May 06, 15:23 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Aw, I'm sorry to hear that.
Just about everything else has been said, I guess.
He's free from pain now, and in a better place.
You have my sympathy


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