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Posted: 20 May 06, 01:22 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm assuming girls (or the gay guys out there :D) can relate to this.
My mother is giving me such a hard time! Between the pushing out of the closet, and her total clingy-ness to me, I think I'm going to strangle her! (Not really of course, but she is infuriating.) She gets gets all moody when I spend a lot of time with my friends, and when I'm on the computer too much. She just sits and watches me. I am her best friend. Ugh!

Anyone else experience this? What are your mom problems?


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Posted: 20 May 06, 11:56 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

My mom just yells a bunch, but only when me and my sister are at each others throats. Luckily she is currently in New York. :P She drives me nuts sometimes though...

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Posted: 20 May 06, 12:00 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Hmmm. I don't have any problems with my parents or just my mum. When I was younger I used to get mad at them easily, but now I feel bad for all the times I was mean to them. Other than the fact they won't let me get a dog, I have no problems with them. ;-)

I feel lucky to have the parents I have. :-)


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Posted: 20 May 06, 12:29 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=lime>KillerQueen840 wrote:

Hmmm. I don't have any problems with my parents or just my mum. When I was younger I used to get mad at them easily, but now I feel bad for all the times I was mean to them. Other than the fact they won't let me get a dog, I have no problems with them. ;-)

I feel lucky to have the parents I have. :-)


indeed you are!!! :D


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Posted: 20 May 06, 12:49 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Raffy?

I'm Jess...


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Posted: 20 May 06, 12:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=lime>KillerQueen840 wrote:

Raffy?

I'm Jess...


I was about to say, lol. :-P

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Posted: 20 May 06, 13:39 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Ahhh! Thank God I'm not the only one!!! My stepmom is so clingy!!! I can't stand clingy. I'm always like "Get AWAY!!" and then she cries and yells at me and then I feel guilty. Blaugh. Thank God for Queenzone to run away to! :P

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Posted: 20 May 06, 13:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

mayniac316 wrote:

Ahhh! Thank God I'm not the only one!!! My stepmom is so clingy!!! I can't stand clingy. I'm always like "Get AWAY!!" and then she cries and yells at me and then I feel guilty. Blaugh. Thank God for Queenzone to run away to! :P

My mom is clingy, too. She thinks that I'm an easy target, and if I go out, I'll get raped. When she says, "you can go with your sister", but I say I'd rather go alone, she gets all suspicious and asks why I don't want my sister's company.


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Posted: 20 May 06, 14:08 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

White Queen the second wrote:

Im glad I dont talk to my mam


Ever???

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Posted: 20 May 06, 14:42 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

ChinesedogTorture wrote:

mayniac316 wrote:

Ahhh! Thank God I'm not the only one!!! My stepmom is so clingy!!! I can't stand clingy. I'm always like "Get AWAY!!" and then she cries and yells at me and then I feel guilty. Blaugh. Thank God for Queenzone to run away to! :P

My mom is clingy, too. She thinks that I'm an easy target, and if I go out, I'll get raped. When she says, "you can go with your sister", but I say I'd rather go alone, she gets all suspicious and asks why I don't want my sister's company.


Same here. Except my sister is in Germany, and I have to go with my younger brother, who is 15. And she always picks "rape." Not like you'll get hit by a car or your purse will get stolen. She always picks the worst possible thing that could happen to me. What a worry wart :P

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Posted: 20 May 06, 14:46 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=lime>KillerQueen840 wrote:

Raffy?

I'm Jess...


oops, sorry for the mistake!!! I got confused by the green thingie... It almost happened several times, and now I didn't look carefully... sorry jessie...


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Posted: 20 May 06, 15:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

That's not a problem. It was bound to happen to someone someday. ;-)


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Posted: 20 May 06, 15:06 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

well, glad it was me xD well... at least I'll pay double-care now :)


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Posted: 20 May 06, 16:20 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

White Queen the second wrote:

WhatMustHeThink wrote:

White Queen the second wrote:

Im glad I dont talk to my mam


Ever???


I talk to her just not deep conversation talk!but im feelin terrible at the moment cause I gave her food poisoning last night =(


Ouch! Hope she feels better!

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Posted: 20 May 06, 17:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

White Queen the second wrote:

WhatMustHeThink wrote:

White Queen the second wrote:

WhatMustHeThink wrote:

White Queen the second wrote:

Im glad I dont talk to my mam


Ever???


I talk to her just not deep conversation talk!but im feelin terrible at the moment cause I gave her food poisoning last night =(


Ouch! Hope she feels better!


so do I,its not too bad though


Thats good. :)

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Posted: 20 May 06, 17:03 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

My mum never gets off my back. It's always: "Put on more clothes! Make your bed! Buy new shoes!" I don't want any fucking new shoes, I like my room when it's a mess and I don't get cold when just because I don't have a jacket in the middle of the summer! But no, she doesn't get this, she thinks I sholud dress like a fucking eskimo in 100 degrees heat. Jeez... Wish she was a bit more like my dad...


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Posted: 20 May 06, 18:17 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

mayniac316 wrote:

Ahhh! Thank God I'm not the only one!!! My stepmom is so clingy!!! I can't stand clingy. I'm always like "Get AWAY!!" and then she cries and yells at me and then I feel guilty. Blaugh. Thank God for Queenzone to run away to! :P


I hear ya! I just got back from a trip with her and she wouldn't let me listen to Queen! Two hours of silence... I wonder if she'll let me go out tonight. Probably not. lol :-P


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Posted: 20 May 06, 19:07 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Well folks

I'm neither a "mom", "mum" or "mam". Nor am I gay. (I think)

However, a few sage words, along the lines of the Sunscreen song.

My mother is now 74, and crippled with Parkinson's. She has to live in a home where she gets 24hr a day care. It was the hardest decision of our lives to put her in there.

But she is still our mother. She gives off when I ditch yet another girlfriend. She offers sage advice when we need it. She is the answer to all parent woes when my sister can't cope with her three boisterous brats.

So all I will say is: your mums won't be there forever. Appreciate them now, including all their wee faults. When they're gone, you'll miss them.

And....wear sunscreen.


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Posted: 20 May 06, 19:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

ok.computer wrote:



So all I will say is: your mums won't be there forever. Appreciate them now, including all their wee faults. When they're gone, you'll miss them.


...God is that ever the truth. I miss my mom more than I can even say. I'd give anything to have even one more day with her...



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Posted: 20 May 06, 20:04 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Janet wrote:

ok.computer wrote:



So all I will say is: your mums won't be there forever. Appreciate them now, including all their wee faults. When they're gone, you'll miss them.


...God is that ever the truth. I miss my mom more than I can even say. I'd give anything to have even one more day with her...



One more day. That's all we ever ask in the end.


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