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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 17:44 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

^I'm so sorry!! *hugs* The same thing happened to me. My great grandma wasn't feeling good and she went to the hospital and they thought that she was dehydrated or had the flu but she had a heart attack and idnt know it..She was in the hospital-sedated and I couldnt talk to her and she died a day after her birthday. I know how you feel hun, I felt the same way-sh was a big part in my life and taught me so much. I was lost without her. *more hugs*


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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 17:50 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

The fact that she died on her birthday makes it that much sadder.. I'm really very sorry. :( Just by the way you talk about her, I can assure you that you shouldn't feel guilty for not speaking with her on Sunday. She knows you love her.

My prayers go out to you and your family.


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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 18:02 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm so very sorry to hear this. It's never easy to lose someone you love, but to lose them on a day when you expected to celebrate their life makes it that much harder. If there is any comfort I can offer it is to say that at least by the birthday wishes coming in today you know how loved your grandmother was and is.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.


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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 18:05 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Omg im so sorry. I kno how you feel because my grandma passed away a year ago and i still feel as if it happened recently because she had such a slow and painfull death. She had breast cancer but then it spread all over her and the only organs of her body that werent infected were her lungs and her brain. The doctors couldnt do anything to help her because it spread so quickly. She even had skin cancer and she suffered alot for 2 months until she passed away. It was really painfull for me and i know that the loss of your grandma is very painful for you. And once again im so sorry.

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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 18:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm so sorry. My condolences go out to you and your family. ;__;


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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 18:58 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

My Lord! So sorry for your lose!

I hope in time you can only imagine good memories and not the bad. It helps a bit, you know.

R.I.P :(

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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 19:06 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

my condolences


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Posted: 17 Apr 07, 21:30 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

sorry man, remember she is in a better place now


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Posted: 18 Apr 07, 00:51 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Sorry to hear about this :( I know what you are going through because my grandad died last year around christmas time. Just try to focus on all the good times you had with your nan and celebrate all the things she did, appreciate the life she had. I know it sounds majorly corny, but looking at it this way helped me, I hope it helps you too.



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Posted: 18 Apr 07, 12:15 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Sorry to hear your news pal. I know exactly how you feel as my dad died a couple of weeks ago. Like your gran it was a massive heart attack but I take a lot of comfort in the fact that he died sitting in his favourite chair while watching the racing on telly. We even joked about checking his betting slips as it was probably a winner that gave him the heart attack in the first place. Keep your chin up and be there for your grandad.

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Posted: 18 Apr 07, 12:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

My condolences to both of you.

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Posted: 18 Apr 07, 13:14 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

*gives biggest hug in the world*

after my incident on the news yesterday (if anyone read my post in the v-tech thread, which i think was completely ignored) i will not say the same as everyone else. i know they mean well, but i want to say what i feel. and i have no words. so ill give you the biggest bear hug this side of the states!

*uber hug*




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Posted: 18 Apr 07, 13:15 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Sorry for your loss, but don't let it get you down. It's going to be tough for your granpa, but you two will find strength in each other that you never thought you had. And really you didn't. That's her, she's still here and can watch over you both now. Don't feel lost, look to her for guidance. My Dad passed two years ago and I still talk to him just as much now as I did then. When I need advice, I look at his life and what he did. That always turns out to be the best choice.

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Posted: 18 Apr 07, 13:47 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

my sympathies are with you..
keep your chin up,these things make you stronger in the long run,even though you probably doubt that at the moment.
dont be afraid to talk to friends and family about it,theyre going through the same thing as you and dont bottle up your emotions,let the grief your feeling make you a better person.


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Posted: 19 Apr 07, 03:13 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm sorry. :(

My condolences.


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Posted: 19 Apr 07, 03:18 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I'm so sorry. I've never lost anyone close to me, so I can't even come close to imagining what it's like. My deepest sympathies. Stay strong. We're all here for you, friend.


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Posted: 19 Apr 07, 16:42 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

<font color=orange>Mr Brittas</bold> wrote:


I really wish i got to say goodbye and tell her i love her before she went. I feel so upset. Also when she phoned on Sunday i went out with a friend rather than talk to her and i feel so bad now.


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