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Posted: 10 May 07, 05:15 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote


I keep getting these crushes and crushes can be..well.. very crushing if they are not reciprocated.


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Posted: 10 May 07, 05:48 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Ah, well... just take a dive into bed. Tomorrow there's another day to waste, in which you can try as hard as possible to reach that girl. Because you SHOULD go for it! Find out what kind of girl it is and don't be afraid of anything.

With nothing left to lose, there's everything to go!



I got to try al little more,

because I'm an asshole but I'm learning.



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Posted: 10 May 07, 07:25 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I love Wade...and Jase...


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Posted: 10 May 07, 09:57 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:

I'm depressed now. Why the hell am I up at 5:30 am in the morning?


Because you're obsessive and suspicious. Not the most attractive traits. IMO, early intervention would be a fantastic idea.


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Posted: 10 May 07, 10:16 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

hormones?

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Posted: 10 May 07, 12:49 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

magicalfreddiemercury wrote:

SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:

I'm depressed now. Why the hell am I up at 5:30 am in the morning?


Because you're obsessive and suspicious. Not the most attractive traits. IMO, early intervention would be a fantastic idea.


What does that mean? Early intervention.

Why do you say those are bad traits?

How can a person not be obsessive or suspicious?



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Posted: 10 May 07, 14:44 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:

What does that mean? Early intervention.

Why do you say those are bad traits?

How can a person not be obsessive or suspicious?



1. Early intervention means - speak to a professional about how you feel before you take it further than internal obsession.

2. Obsession and suspicion are bad traits for reasons you should know and if you don't, then you can learn them through counseling.

3. A person can overcome obsessive or suspicious behaviours through counseling.

See a pattern?

What you've described feeling in your posts is not healthy - for you or your 'love' interest. You've posted several times with similar opinions and while I don't know how sincere you are, I find it disturbing.



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Posted: 10 May 07, 16:17 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Thank you for your advice but I disagree.

So I get a little love-struck. Who doesn't? But they always fade away. And being a little suspicious is not bad. It's good to be a little cautious.

For instance, though you only know me from my posts, you are "suspicious" that I have some problem where I need therapy. Now, do you feel you need to see a shrink for your problem?

See how ridiculous you are being? I always take words of advice especially when it pertains to medical or psychiatric with a little healthy skepticism. Too many people feel they are qualified to "diagnose" people.

But thanks anyway.



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Posted: 10 May 07, 16:37 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:

Thank you for your advice but I disagree.

So I get a little love-struck. Who doesn't? But they always fade away. And being a little suspicious is not bad. It's good to be a little cautious.

For instance, though you only know me from my posts, you are "suspicious" that I have some problem where I need therapy. Now, do you feel you need to see a shrink for your problem?

See how ridiculous you are being? I always take words of advice especially when it pertains to medical or psychiatric with a little healthy skepticism. Too many people feel they are qualified to "diagnose" people.

But thanks anyway.



The fact that you edited/deleted your original posts shows some level of concern on your part. As it should.

I stand by my opinion.


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Posted: 10 May 07, 19:36 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Why not take a loaded firearm to school and seeing how many classmates/teachers you can blow away before the police arrive.
That's a sure fire way to impress the ladies.

fatty.

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Posted: 10 May 07, 22:39 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

does anyone watch dr phil?


theyve had some guy on ther ewho is dangerously obsessed with his own wife....its crazy!


why pay the visit when the visit is free?



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Posted: 11 May 07, 00:34 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

magicalfreddiemercury wrote:

SomebodyWhoLoves wrote:

Thank you for your advice but I disagree.

So I get a little love-struck. Who doesn't? But they always fade away. And being a little suspicious is not bad. It's good to be a little cautious.

For instance, though you only know me from my posts, you are "suspicious" that I have some problem where I need therapy. Now, do you feel you need to see a shrink for your problem?

See how ridiculous you are being? I always take words of advice especially when it pertains to medical or psychiatric with a little healthy skepticism. Too many people feel they are qualified to "diagnose" people.

But thanks anyway.



The fact that you edited/deleted your original posts shows some level of concern on your part. As it should.

I stand by my opinion.



Please stop trying to play the shrink because you are only embarrassing yourself. So now, people who edit their posts have issues?

Come on!


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Posted: 11 May 07, 00:35 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

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Why not take a loaded firearm to school and seeing how many classmates/teachers you can blow away before the police arrive.
That's a sure fire way to impress the ladies.

fatty.


Ordinarily "fatty" you are pretty funny guy, but that joke is just in awful taste comsidering what has transpired here in the usa.


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Posted: 11 May 07, 03:34 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

I've actually been working on some issues like this in therapy. Though I don't have a problem with getting crushes really, I do tend to get clingy with one person at a time online and expect them to be equally clingy.

So I'm trying to branch out and spread my awesomeness among several people instead. It can be a pain though, as with a number of contacts, I find that they tend to show up at the same time and I get stressed trying to keep everyone happy. Flashing windows and rejected Skype calls.. it's really a pain being popular. But then they all disappear at the same time too and I end up still wanting to spend time with the original object of my clingitism.

But good luck and try to just relax and find activities away from whoever you're crushing on. Try to be more restrained and wait to see if they're wanting the same thing as you. Maybe you're trying to manipulate them or be extra-nice or something like that... trust me, that won't work. You'll just feel used. You cannot change others. You gotta make changes in yourself if things aren't going the way you'd like them to.

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Posted: 11 May 07, 06:53 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

fatty wrote:

Why not take a loaded firearm to school and seeing how many classmates/teachers you can blow away before the police arrive.
That's a sure fire way to impress the ladies.

fatty.


XD

Fatty is right you know :P


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Posted: 11 May 07, 07:05 Edit this post Reply to this post Reply with Quote

Fatty is a cunt.

Not really. Just trying to cause trouble. i heart u fatty :)

THAT being said.. I like to reflect on what is said in Eternal Sunshine on the Spotless Mind when Joel (Jim Carrey's character) is acknowledged by Clementine (Kate Winslet) - "Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?".

I used to feel that. Then I became bitter inside and that fixed me all up! The answer is, sadly, to become slightly bitter! And live a happy life like I do. *cries*


...this kettle is boiling over...

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...one prawn...one shrimp...one clam...one chicken!